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My last two months:

  • Dad died

  • Needed to buy a new car pronto speedy quick

  • Biopsy (thankfully a false alarm)

  • Still dealing with Dad's estate

I haven't been posting much on Tumblr, either, just reblogging things so that people would feel like I was still alive.  I'm not sure it has worked.

Mostly right now I just want to rave about Star Wars: Rebels.  Maybe I will.  Every 10 years or so the Star Wars Feels resurface and I feel the desire to impose my Deep Star Wars Thoughts on my friends.

Date: 2015-10-02 02:03 pm (UTC)
ext_19622: (Clint and Natasha - light)
From: [identity profile]
Sorry to hear about your dad. *hugs*

Date: 2015-10-02 02:06 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile]
Thank you. At this point it occupies that weird niche where I feel like it's in the past now, and yet it keeps sneaking up to ambush me.

Date: 2015-10-03 10:22 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile]
It always will. Time will be your friend here. You will learn how to give it some room so it is not so consuming.

Date: 2015-10-02 02:30 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile]
Mental hug on your dad. And I understand about it ambushing you - my dad died back in 1986, but it was on Halloween, so every year, I get a reminder - especially now, when Tumblr goes Halloween nuts. (I mean - my parents were divorced at the time, so I didn't know him as much as I wanted to, but I still miss him - and I was 12 at the time.) This year, I finally blocked the Halloween tag.

Let me know if there's anything I can do.

Date: 2015-10-03 03:39 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile]
Hugs back!

I'm okay. Thinking of him makes me sad and happy at the same time. My parents separated when I was 4, and he wasn't in my life much till I was 12 or so (I don't think he really knew what to do with little kids, and he was pretty messed up for the first part of my life anyway--which is why Mom left him in the first place). But I'm glad I got to know him.

Date: 2015-10-03 09:54 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile]
Understood. And thanks for realizing that my post wasn't an attempt of 'my life is worst' bingo, but more of a trying to show you I can relate. I worried after I posted it that it came across as one of those, "But what about ME?" posts you see every once in a while.

Alas, it's a cliche for a reason: time heals all wounds, and you just have to 'just keep swimming' for now.

Here - have Tom Hiddleston doing an impression of Robert De Niro - TO Robert De Niro.

Date: 2015-10-02 02:40 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile]
So sorry to hear about your dad *hugs*

rave all you want about Star Wars: Rebels. it is rave worthy :)

Date: 2015-10-02 02:56 pm (UTC)
trobadora: (Default)
From: [personal profile] trobadora
I'm so sorry about your dad! *hugs*

Date: 2015-10-03 03:40 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile]
Thank you! I wish you could have met him. I think you would've liked him. He was the weirdest, most brilliant person I've ever known.

Date: 2015-10-03 08:52 pm (UTC)
trobadora: (Default)
From: [personal profile] trobadora
Aw, thank you, that's such a lovely thing to say. ♥

Date: 2015-10-02 04:56 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile]
I'm so sorry about your father. Mine died years ago but I still feel the loss very keenly at times. But huzzah for the false alarm. That is was false not that you had to go through it. I had one of those with a PAP smear this summer and it wasn't fun being on tender-hooks at all. I hope things smooth out for you now. Just concentrate on Star Wars nirvana!

Date: 2015-10-03 03:41 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile]
Yeah. I lost my mom a few years back, so I know the deal. You never entirely get over missing the people you love--but that's okay. It's worth it for having had the chance to know them, and maybe it's even kind of a reminder of how much they mattered to you.

Date: 2015-10-02 06:32 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile]
I'm very sorry to hear about your father.

Date: 2015-10-03 04:01 pm (UTC)

Date: 2015-10-02 09:42 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile]
Love you hun *hugs*

Date: 2015-10-03 03:46 pm (UTC)

Date: 2015-10-03 04:00 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile]
Hugs back! And I hope your own dramas smooth out quickly!

Date: 2015-10-03 03:27 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile]
My condolences on your loss. :(

Date: 2015-10-03 03:58 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile]
Thank you! How've you been doing?

Date: 2015-10-04 03:25 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile]
I've been well. Busy, but well.

Date: 2015-10-04 04:04 am (UTC)
ext_3536: A close up of a green dragon's head, gentle looking with slight wisps of smoke from its nostrils. (Default)
From: [identity profile]
Sorry to hear you lost your Dad.

Date: 2015-10-04 05:32 am (UTC)
alice_montrose: by me (Default)
From: [personal profile] alice_montrose
I'm sorry to hear about your dad, and about life being bitchy with you. *hugs and offers tea*

Star Wars Rebels is awesome, and it will get even better because Sarah Michelle Gellar will play a Sith Inquisitor this season. So yay!

Date: 2016-01-07 01:23 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile]
Oh my goodness. I know how bad that all goes. I lost an aunt, and I just had to deal with a biopsy and tumor this past year, too. (hugs tightly) Glad you're doing all right after all that has happened!

Date: 2016-08-31 05:45 pm (UTC)
trobadora: (Default)
From: [personal profile] trobadora
Happy birthday!

We haven't talked in what seems like forever. I miss you. Hope you're well! *hugs*

Date: 2016-08-31 06:40 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile]
Hi! Yeah, I keep vanishing. XD Things are going well. The latest update: I have bought a house! September is move-in month. Also we may be acquiring another parrot this weekend! We are looking at rehoming a cute little conure from a family who can't keep him.

Date: 2016-09-01 04:57 pm (UTC)
trobadora: (Default)
From: [personal profile] trobadora
Glad things are well! Congrats on the house, and I hope the move goes smoothly. Also, aw, another parrot! Post pictures if you do get it?

Over here things are a bit stressful, partly because I'm doing too many things at once and partly because I've been ill a lot this summer. But I'm trying to get myself back into something approaching a normal schedule now.


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